Frank Sinatra Christians? ("I Did It My
Way")
In
the 1960's Paul Anka penned the lyrics to a song which was made famous by Frank
Sinatra called "My Way." It is
about a person nearing the end of their life on Earth ("the end is
near", "the final curtain").
It speaks of life's ups, downs, decisions and choices. The song may be about having the courage to
live your life without allowing others to unduly control you with their judgments. Depending on a person's situation, this kind
of courage might be a beneficial thing.
But, as a Christian, could this song ever be an appropriate theme song
for our way of life? When we are about
to stand before the Creator of the Universe, would we be proud to stand before
our God and proudly proclaim to Him that we did it our way?
I mean no disrespect to Mr. Sinatra, but
there are many church leaders and followers of God who, without realizing it,
are attempting to serve God like the popular song suggests. For them, devotion and loyalty is more about
what they want, what will please the people and what is popular and
entertaining so that visitors will come to "church." The safe and guaranteed way, the way that is
right and cannot be wrong, gets laid
aside and even ridiculed so that they may keep their newly discovered
improvements on what God has said. They
are usurping the authority and guidance of the Holy Scriptures to do it
"their" way. Their goal is not complete and careful obedience and
submission to an all wise and all powerful Creator. They are quick to create new and improved ways to worship and new
doctrines to teach. They say,
"God's revealed ways are not enough
for our times and our culture." So
they let the culture dictate how they do things. Sadly, they are demonstrating that they
believe themselves to be smarter than God.
Jesus did say the way to life is straight and narrow and that few would
find it (Matthew 7:13). Jesus also said
that worshippers who lay aside the teachings of God to follow the teaches of
men worship God in vain (Mark 7:6-9). Paul
gave an interesting thought in Romans when talking about religious people who
refuse to submit to God's Words. He
said, "Let
God be true, but every man a liar; as it is written, That thou mightest be
justified in thy sayings, and mightest overcome when thou art judged."
(Romans 3:4).
A smarter than
God person would likely say at this point that I am suggesting a
"legalistic" approach to following God. This would be an example of their not
understanding the scripture and their defining words "their way." They might suggest I am proposing we have the
attitude of the "Pharisees." I
challenge anyone to show me one example in the Bible where God was unhappy with
a person humbly being careful to do things "His way" as revealed in
scriptures. God's problem with the
Pharisees was not their careful study of God's Word, but their failure to obey
what they taught and their exaltation of "their" traditions above the
Words of God (Matthew 23:2,3). In
reality, those who are going beyond the scriptures are more like the Pharisees
than those who humbly and lovingly submit to only God's Word and His revealed
examples of life and worship.
We all have a
crucial choice to make. We can worship
and serve those who were created by God or we can retain God in our knowledge
and reverence His every Word as truth and all sufficient for every
"good" work (Romans 1:25; 2 Tim 3:16,17). My Bible tells me over and over that doing it
"my way" always has an unhappy ending when I have to face God. On the other hand, can you imagine God ever
being displeased with someone on the judgment day saying, "Sorry God, I am
a sinner and you are all wise and knowing.
Please forgive me for always trying to worship and serve you "Your
Way" as much as I possibly could."
Final
Questions: When we attend a gathering or
assembly of those claiming to follow Jesus...:
Are we there to be pleased, entertained and catered to OR are we there to humbly hear the voice of God, a message from our
Creator and Lord which might help us turn from our selfish ways and guide us
closer to the narrow path which leads to eternal life? Are we there to let God know how Great He Is
and how important His every word is to us? Are we there to please God or to
please ourselves? Just asking.